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Motivation Monday, How to Stay Motivated (Part I)

by Rob Virges “Be long-term greedy, the harder you work the luckier you get.”-Chris Haroun I hope you all had a wonderful weekend, whether you’re having a good start to the week or a not-so- good & slow start, either way I want to wish you a Happy Monday! Today’s …

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How to Touch a Girl (Part 2)

By Rob Virges “How to touch a girl” “So, I sort of know how to touch a girl but I can still never make it to home plate Rob!” “I already know how to touch a girl but how do I physically escalate?” “Can I please have a cheat sheet …

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How to Touch a Girl

By Rob Virges “How to Touch a Girl” “Won’t I get smacked and have a drink thrown in my face if I decide touched a girl?” “Isn’t it inappropriate to touch a girl?” “I can’t touch a girl, I don’t want them to think I’m creepy, weird, or like Donald …

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How to Flirt with a Girl

By Rob Virges “How to Flirt with a Girl?” “How do you actually flirt with a girl?” “What do I say to her that’ll make her laugh and banter back with me?” Ahhh Flirting, a fun art I should say full of unfiltered fun and an unpredictable amount of sexual …

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How to Flirt with a Girl over Text (Part II)

By Rob Virges “How do I flirt with a girl over text?” “I love having a structure to refer to but I don’t want to come off as robotic and in genuine when I’m texting her.” In part 1 of this two part series, I laid out the foundations, a …

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How to Flirt With a Girl Over Text

By Rob Virges “How do I flirt with a girl over text?” “How do I text a girl I’m attracted to?” “I’m trying to set up a date with her but she suddenly stopped responding to all my text messages.” I’m sure these are some questions & frustrations that have …

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Questions to Ask a Girl

By Rob Virges “Questions to ask a girl? Hmmm….” “What kind of questions do you ask a girl?” “What should I ask her?” “What do I say to her?” “What do girls usually like to talk about?” “What if she’ll think I’m awkward if I talk about my hobbies?” “There’s …

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Getting Stood Up.

by Rob Virges “Introspection, the examination or observation of one’s own mental and emotional processes.” When I got into this whole self-improvement and personal development thing, I’ve been told countless times that too much of this wasn’t good for progressing towards your dating goals, that thinking leads to less action …

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What's your story - Craft of Charisma podcast with Dr. Aziz Gazipura
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What’s your Story? – with Dr. Aziz Gazipura

Dr. Aziz Gazipura is a clinical psychologist and one of the world’s leading experts on social confidence. In fact, he is the founder of The Center for Social Confidence, an organization dedicated to helping men break through their shyness and social anxiety, as well as the author of the book, …

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Two Stages of Overcoming Social Anxiety

This post describes numerous cognitive and behavioral tips and strategies to help you overcome social anxiety and build social intelligence. Depending on your specific personality and past experiences, some strategies will work better than others, so I suggest trying them out to see which ones are most effective for you. …

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