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The Fallacy of All-or-Nothing Thinking (Motivation Monday Part IV)

“Perfection is the enemy of the good”-Voltaire For the last two months I’ve been experimenting with something new to get back into shape and condition. The difference this time is that this wasn’t some “Oh shit, summer’s almost here, I gotta cut down and get my six pack ready for …

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How does the ugly guy get the beautiful woman? Part I (A guide on developing your inner Casanova)

“Never pick a fight with an ugly person, they’ve got nothing to lose.”-Robin Williams   The other day I wrote a post about going for girls that you deem out of your league. If you haven’t had a chance to take a look at it here’s the link as it’ll …

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How to Move On (Part II)

-by Rob Virges A few weeks ago I wrote an article about moving on and letting go of a girl you’ve either just recently broken up with, have been pursuing but doesn’t feel the same way about you, or has in some form become an unfulfilled flame due to circumstances …

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Why Quitting is a Vital Part of Your Success (Motivation Monday Part III)

-by Rob Virges I just got off the phone with one of my best friends from college, besides catching up, we always get into deep intellectual and philosophical debates about life, our respective career choices, current challenges, long-term visions, navigating the ups and downs of dating lives like any other …

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Motivation Monday, How to Stay Motivated (Part I)

by Rob Virges “Be long-term greedy, the harder you work the luckier you get.”-Chris Haroun I hope you all had a wonderful weekend, whether you’re having a good start to the week or a not-so- good & slow start, either way I want to wish you a Happy Monday! Today’s …

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How to Touch a Girl (Part 2)

By Rob Virges “How to touch a girl” “So, I sort of know how to touch a girl but I can still never make it to home plate Rob!” “I already know how to touch a girl but how do I physically escalate?” “Can I please have a cheat sheet …

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How to Touch a Girl

By Rob Virges “How to Touch a Girl” “Won’t I get smacked and have a drink thrown in my face if I decide touched a girl?” “Isn’t it inappropriate to touch a girl?” “I can’t touch a girl, I don’t want them to think I’m creepy, weird, or like Donald …

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How to Flirt with a Girl

By Rob Virges “How to Flirt with a Girl?” “How do you actually flirt with a girl?” “What do I say to her that’ll make her laugh and banter back with me?” Ahhh Flirting, a fun art I should say full of unfiltered fun and an unpredictable amount of sexual …

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How to Flirt with a Girl over Text (Part II)

By Rob Virges “How do I flirt with a girl over text?” “I love having a structure to refer to but I don’t want to come off as robotic and in genuine when I’m texting her.” In part 1 of this two part series, I laid out the foundations, a …

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How to Flirt With a Girl Over Text

By Rob Virges “How do I flirt with a girl over text?” “How do I text a girl I’m attracted to?” “I’m trying to set up a date with her but she suddenly stopped responding to all my text messages.” I’m sure these are some questions & frustrations that have …

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