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How to Cure Nice Guy Syndrome: 5 Tips on Overcoming Nice Guy Syndrome Without Having to Become an Asshole

-by Rob Virges “I just don’t get it Rob, I don’t know what went wrong with our relationship. I loved her, I literally did everything for her, always went out of my way to make her happy, bought her whatever she wanted, emotionally supported her whenever she needed it, and …

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How to Not Be Creepy: 8 Quick Fixes & Tips On Becoming a Smooth Operator

“Hey Rob, I was just recently told by a girl who was a friend of mine that her friend thought I was strange and came off creepy, I don’t what I did to put her off, what should I do?” For all the men I have coached in the last …

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How to Approach a Girl: The 4 Type of Openers You Can Use to Make Every Conversation Stick

-by Rob Virges “Hey Rob, how do I break the ice with a girl? Holding conversations whether it’s small talk or some really deep stuff is pretty easy but my real hurdle is overcoming the initial awkwardness of the introduction.” With every workshop and every Dating Mastery Class cycle I’ve …

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How to Approach a Girl: 7 Signals She Wants You to Talk to Her

“Hey Rob, what do you need to look out for when you’re about to approach a girl in a bar, club, or any nightlife setting for that matter?” I was out the other night recently with a few of my good friends from college slamming back a few beers, enjoying …

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How to Get a Girlfriend: 10 Simple Steps to Make Her Want You

“You get into the game to get out of it.”-Random Disillusioned Lothario I remember a few years ago when I was first learning the fundamentals of the dating game and starting to see some initial results after a year of awkward firsts. Awkward first approaches, awkward small talk, awkward first …

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5 Simple First Date Ideas

-by Rob Virges Student: “Hey Rob, I just managed to get a date with a girl I had just met at Whole Foods the other day? I’m excited but I’m also incredibly nervous to what we should do on our first date together.” Rob: “For the love of God, please …

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How to Date Girls Out of Your League

-by Rob Virges Student: “Hey Rob, I just don’t think I can approach that girl over there.” Rob: “Why not?” Student: “Well…I’m just too (insert excuse here)…..” Every single class I’ve ever coached, with every single client in a unique situation, at one point or another I’ve always have gotten …

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Not missing out on “The One.” (Relationship Series Part I)

-by Rob Virges I had recently had a long conversation with a student who just went through and finished all ten weeks of the Dating Mastery Class for this spring cycle. If I could, I’d give him an MVP award for being the most consistent, coachable, and one of the …

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How to Get a Girl to Invest In You

-by Rob Virges “Hey Rob, oftentimes I get into a conversation with a girl & its always usually goes smoothly in the beginning, then usually out of nowhere, it gets stale, it stalls, and she always ends up leaving to go back to her friends or to another guy, what …

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Going Out Alone (Part II)

-by Rob Virges In part one of this two part series, I spent a lot of the time covering the mental and psychological processes of getting yourself mentally and emotionally prepared for a night out alone without the support of a wingman or a support of your friend groups. From …

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