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The 20 Best Places to Meet Women Other Than a Bar or Club.

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“It’s so hard being single again, I’ve been in a relationship for the last 4 years and it feels like starting from square one all over again. I’ve slowly gotten over my breakup, I’ve been dressing better, have gotten back into shape, yet at this point, I have no idea what to do or where…
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How to Deal with Rejection: A Guide for Thriving in the Modern Dating Game

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If there's one thing that life and the dating game have in common is it's harsh way of reminding you of your vulnerabilities and humanity. Every mastery class cycle and workshop I've coached in the last few years always has some question or resistance that comes in the form of rejection. This isn't going to…
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How to Cure Nice Guy Syndrome: 5 Tips on Overcoming Nice Guy Syndrome Without Having to Become an Asshole

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  "I just don't get it Rob, I don't know what went wrong with our relationship. I loved her, I literally did everything for her, always went out of my way to make her happy, bought her whatever she wanted, emotionally supported her whenever she needed it, and the end of it all, it lead…
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How to Approach a Girl: The 4 Type of Openers You Can Use to Make Every Conversation Stick

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"Hey Rob, how do I break the ice with a girl? Holding conversations whether it's small talk or some really deep stuff is pretty easy but my real hurdle is overcoming the initial awkwardness of the introduction." With every workshop and every Dating Mastery Class cycle I've consistently gotten a variation of this question on…
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How to Approach a Girl: 7 Signals She Wants You to Talk to Her

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"Hey Rob, what do you need to look out for when you're about to approach a girl in a bar, club, or any nightlife setting for that matter?" I was out the other night recently with a few of my good friends from college slamming back a few beers, enjoying the views, reminiscing about our…
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How to Get a Girlfriend: 10 Simple Steps to Make Her Want You

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"You get into the game to get out of it."-Random Disillusioned Lothario I remember a few years ago when I was first learning the fundamentals of the dating game and starting to see some initial results after a year of awkward firsts. Awkward first approaches, awkward small talk, awkward first dates, awkward sex, and when…
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The Fallacy of All-or-Nothing Thinking (Motivation Monday Part IV)

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"Perfection is the enemy of the good"-Voltaire For the last two months I've been experimenting with something new to get back into shape and condition. The difference this time is that this wasn't some "Oh shit, summer's almost here, I gotta cut down and get my six pack ready for the beach." More or less…
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