Chicago IL Dating Coach
Discover how working with Craft of Charisma’s Dating & Relationship Coaches can help you cultivate more love in your life.
Craft of Charisma has been one of America’s top dating coaches for over a decade. After exclusively serving New York City for years, we’ve expanded our live coaching programs to major cities all over the country, including Chicago, Illinois.
Since 2008, we’ve worked with thousands of people to help them achieve their dating and relationship goals.
Why Hire a Dating Coach in Chicago
If you’ve been struggling with problems in your romantic life for a while, it might be time to consider hiring a dating coach. While everyone’s situation is a little bit different, here are some of the common problems that you might be experiencing:
- You get nervous when approaching a woman you’re attracted to
- You run out of things to say or don’t know how to keep a conversation going
- You get a woman’s phone number but never hear back from her
- She quickly loses interest in you after the first date
- You’re not sure how to move a relationship intimately or sexually
- You have trouble transitioning from casual dating to more serious relationships
The good news is that you can get better at dating. No matter your definition of success, dating successfully is really just a set of skills that you can learn.
Trying to figure it out on your own can only get you so far. Working with a coach will help you save massive amounts of time and effort in solving your problems, and enable you to finally experience the love, connection, and intimacy you’ve always wanted.
But you shouldn’t just hire any dating coach. Below are a few of the biggest reasons why Craft of Charisma is different from other Chicago dating coaches.
At Craft of Charisma, our dating coaches have years of experience coaching thousands of clients. Our average coach is an assistant for at least three years before we let them run a workshop on their own.
Because of this wealth of experience, there are things that our dating coaches are able to see in our clients and adjust, often in minutes or even seconds, that our clients would never be able to recognize on their own.
Just making one change might be significant, but a series of these changes is often transformational and can save a man from a lifetime of romantic frustrations.
Advice Tailored to You
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Оnе-ѕіzе-fіtѕ-аll аdvісе rarely works when it comes to dating and relationships. An experienced dating coach wіll zеrо іn оn уоur unique раttеrnѕ аnd реrѕоnаlіtу trаіtѕ tо dеѕіgn а ѕtrаtеgу that’s реrfесt fоr уоu.
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Studіеѕ ѕhоw that people are far more lіkеlу tо rеасh аnd mаіntаіn а реrѕоnаl gоаl when they lеt ѕоmеоnе еlѕе іn оn their рlаnѕ.
When you’re the оnlу оnе kееріng tаbѕ оn уоur рrоgrеѕѕ, іt саn bе еаѕу tо fаll bасk іntо unhealthy сусlеѕ or even сhеаt оn уоur ѕсоrеѕ.
A dating coach, much lіkе а реrѕоnаl trаіnеr or any other type of coach, provides you with that extra push you need to роwеr through the tough or uncomfortable mоmеntѕ that mау оthеrwіѕе lеаd to quitting bеfоrе уоu rеасh your goal.
A Personal Touch
Working with a dating coach is not lіkе раѕѕіvеlу wаtсhіng a video or attending а ѕеmіnаr. It іnvоlvеѕ dеvеlоріng а wаrm аnd еnrісhіng rеlаtіоnѕhір wіth ѕоmеоnе who is truly іnvеѕtеd іn hеlріng уоu асhіеvе роѕіtіvе rеѕultѕ.
Developing a personal соnnесtіоn with your coach can help motivate you to keep going even when you run into obstacles and challenges. Yоu ѕіmрlу саn’t gеt that tуре of dynamic, іntеrасtіvе еxреrіеnсе anywhere else.
Work with our Chicago dating experts so you can finally master the art of modern romance.
No matter your experience or situation, we can help you overcome your dating challenges and achieve true fulfillment in your love life.
What Men Look For When Hiring a Chicago Dating Coach
Below are some of the common problems that men are trying to solve or results they’re trying to achieve in their romantic lives when they take our Chicago dating coaching programs.
A man who can confidently approach a woman, build an emotional connection, and move that relationship intimately is a man who has a lot more command over his destiny.
We empower men by providing them with the skill sets and tools they need to meet, attract, and connect with women.
Our clients often want more choices in their love life.
We’ve found that when men feel like they have quality romantic options, they feel empowered. When they don’t feel like they don’t have quality romantic options, they feel frustrated.
Our dating coaches will help you develop skill sets that will enable you to have an abundance of high quality romantic options.
Whether it’s meeting women in person, optimizing their online dating profiles, or dating through their social circle, we help our clients develop the romantic options that they really want.
Higher Quality Women
Our clients are looking to improve the quality of the women that they date.
This could mean that they want to date women who are more attractive, educated, professionally accomplished, have better values, or some other quality or combination of qualities.
We help men to bring forward their best selves, and work with them to meet the type of women that they would be proud to be with.
Some of our clients have had a lot of romantic experiences, while others have had little or none.
Men with little to no romantic experience often don’t know where to start. If they do get into a romantic situation, they’re not sure how to navigate it.
We show these men how to move relationships intimately, so that they can have healthy and fulfilling sex lives.
A percentage of our clients have never been taught how to express their masculine energy.
Generally, these men also tend to carry a lot of sexual shame. People often describe them as nice, but in reality they often feel lost, frustrated, or angry inside, because they’re suppressing their desires, feelings, and instincts.
We’ve also noticed that they have a tendency to seek an unhealthy amount of approval and validation from others because they’re scared of standing out or being rejected.
On occasions when they do try to express their masculinity or sexuality, they either go way too far, or not far enough. As a consequence, they usually end up as friends with women that they’re attracted to.
We help these men learn to comfortably express their masculinity and sexuality, and to develop their emotional and social intelligence so they can date successfully.
Emotional Expression and Connection
In contrast, we also have clients who are very good at expressing their masculine energy.
People think of them as being very “alpha.” Often, they have a lot of sexual experience, but they have a hard time opening up, making themselves vulnerable, and emotionally connecting with women.
These men get trapped in their masculinity. Women sleep with them, but usually don’t think of them as long term partners.
We teach these men to open up and allow themselves to be vulnerable so that they can emotionally connect with women, and have fulfilling relationships.
A man is only as strong as the men he has around him.
Men looking for community fall into one of two camps: Either they need new friends or they need different friends.
If a man needs new friends, it’s often because his friends have all moved on to different phases of their life. As an example, maybe his buddies are all settling down and he’s the last one who is still single.
Another man might be looking for different friends because he wants to grow and make changes in his life, but his friends are holding him back.
When a man takes a Craft of Charisma program, he joins a healthy community of supportive men who understand his situation and goals.
A lot of men don’t know why their love life isn’t working. They know that they’re not getting the results that they want, but they can’t figure out how to turn things around on their own.
We work with our clients to figure out what’s not working and then we help them to fix it.
Our clients want to make the most of their time on earth.
Regardless of what people say, dating doesn’t get easier as you get older.
Generally, it gets a lot harder because there are less available dating options, people have more baggage, and age will make it harder to naturally attract and connect with the women that you’re most attracted to.
Our experience is that the best time to date is almost always now and that the best time to get better at dating was yesterday. We can’t emphasize this strongly enough. Time is cruel, and you can’t get your lost time back.
We help our clients save time so that they can make the most out of their lives.
Become the man that you’ve always wanted to be.
We’ll provide you with all the skill sets and guidance you need to meet, attract, and connect with women, nurture intimacy, and build relationships that last.
How Our Chicago Dating Classes Are Structured
Our live dating coaching programs in Chicago have five main components:
1) Lecture / Q&A
Our curriculum is based on the questions our clients have asked us over the years. Some common questions include:
- How do I approach a girl?
- How do I approach a girl with her friends?
- How do I know if she’s interested in me?
- How do I touch her?
- How do I ask for her number?
- When should I text her?
This is just an abbreviated list. The truth is, as you progress and meet more women and have more experiences, more questions will come up. If you have answers to enough of your dating questions and you’re able to solve those problems, you’ll become very happy with the state of your love life.
We want to make certain that what we’re covering in our classes is pertinent to you, your needs, and your goals. That’s why we’re always evolving our curriculum. Bring in your questions to each session and we’ll make sure that you get the answers you need.
2) Role-Play Exercises
Next, we role-play through various social and dating scenarios so that you begin to internalize the concepts we covered in the lecture.
For example, we might have you role-play how you would approach a woman with her friends, or initiate the touch that leads up to a kiss.
Then we give you feedback in a safe environment before we go out for live practice in the Chicago singles scene.
3) Live Practice
We go out to some of the top bars and clubs in the Chicago nightlife to get real-world practice and experiences meeting and interacting with women. Our coaches will be there to watch you, answer your questions, and provide real-time guidance.
Craft of Charisma coaches are there to guide you through this process. We answer your questions, share observations in a constructive way, and show you what you’re doing right and wrong.
5) Reflective Practice
After every infield session, we ask our clients to reflect back on what happened.
During this process, we want them to identify where they’re getting stuck and what new questions are coming up. Then we use these questions to develop the curriculum for our next session.
As you can see, dating coaching is really about self-development. And self-development is an interactive and iterative process.
Stop missing out on all the opportunities the Chicago singles scene has to offer.
Experience true social freedom and be able to confidently approach women in any environment from bars and clubs to regular everyday situations.
Upcoming Dating Bootcamps and Programs in Chicago
Craft of Charisma offers live dating coaching programs including our signature 8-week Dating Mastery Program and 3-Day Dating Bootcamps. We also offer private one-on-one 3-Day Bootcamps and coaching that can be customized to your specific needs and goals.
* Note: Due to the ongoing pandemic, program dates are subject to change. Please contact us with any questions or concerns. *
3-Day Dating Bootcamp
Our How to Meet and Connect with Women Bootcamp is a three-day weekend intensive program designed to help you learn how to approach women, start conversations, and set up dates. Includes lecture, role-play, infield practice, and real time feedback.
8-Week Dating Mastery Program
Our 8-week Dating Mastery Program is the world’s premier dating coaching program for men. It’s an intensive, life-changing experience that will give you the time you need to actually learn, experiment with, and ask questions about what we’ll be teaching you.
1-on-1 Dating Bootcamp
Our 1-on-1 Dating Bootcamp is a three-day customized program designed to help you make significant progress towards your dating and relationship goals. We’ll cover everything from mindset, social skills, meeting and connecting with women, dating, seduction, relationships, and more.
Private 1-on-1 Dating Coaching
Our private 1-on-1 dating coaching pairs you with one of the world’s top dating coaches. You’ll get personalized mentorship to help you reach your dating goals as quickly as possible. We’ll cover all aspects of social skills, dating, relationships, love and commitment, and beyond.
Ready to put your dating and relationship struggles behind you?
Learn how Craft of Charisma’s experienced Chicago dating coaches can help you transform your romantic life and meet your dream girl.
Testimonials and Success Stories
Scroll through the testimonials to hear our former clients share their social, dating and relationship success stories, as well as their experiences from working with Craft of Charisma and founder, CEO, and head coach Chris Luna.
* Note: Some names and photos of clients have been hidden to protect privacy. *