Vancouver BC Dating Coach
Discover how working with Craft of Charisma’s Dating & Relationship Coaches can help you cultivate more love in your life.
Craft of Charisma has been one of the top dating coaches in the US for over a decade. After exclusively serving New York City for years, we’ve expanded our live coaching programs to major cities all over the world, including Vancouver, British Columbia.
Since 2008, we’ve worked with thousands of men of all ages, backgrounds, and personality types to help them achieve their dating and relationship goals.
Why Hire a Dating Coach in Vancouver
If you’ve been struggling with problems in your romantic life for a while, it might be time to consider hiring a dating coach. While everyone’s situation is a little bit different, here are some of the common problems that you might be experiencing:
- You get nervous when approaching a woman you’re attracted to
- You run out of things to say or don’t know how to keep a conversation going
- You get a woman’s phone number but never hear back from her
- She quickly loses interest in you after the first date
- You’re not sure how to move a relationship intimately or sexually
- You have trouble transitioning from casual dating to more serious relationships
The good news is that you can get better at dating. No matter your definition of success, dating successfully is really just a set of skills that you can learn.
Trying to figure it out on your own can only get you so far. Working with a coach will help you save massive amounts of time and effort in solving your problems, and enable you to finally experience the love, connection, and intimacy you’ve always wanted.
But you shouldn’t just hire any dating coach. Below are a few of the biggest reasons why Craft of Charisma is different from other Vancouver dating coaches.
Experience
At Craft of Charisma, our dating coaches have years of experience coaching thousands of clients. Our average coach is an assistant for at least three years before we let them run a workshop on their own.
Because of this wealth of experience, there are things that our dating coaches are able to see in our clients and adjust, often in minutes or even seconds, that our clients would never be able to recognize on their own.
Just making one change might be significant, but a series of these changes is often transformational and can save a man from a lifetime of romantic frustrations and loneliness.
Advice Tailored to You
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Оnе-ѕіzе-fіtѕ-аll аdvісе rarely works when it comes to dating and relationships. An experienced dating coach wіll zеrо іn оn уоur unique раttеrnѕ аnd реrѕоnаlіtу trаіtѕ tо dеѕіgn а ѕtrаtеgу that’s реrfесt fоr уоu.
Nоt оnlу dоеѕ а сuѕtоmіzеd рlаn gеnеrаtе rеѕultѕ, but уоur соасh саn tweak it оvеr tіmе аѕ уоu еvоlvе аnd іdеntіfу nеw іѕѕuеѕ оr рrоblеmѕ.
Accountability
Studіеѕ ѕhоw that people are far more lіkеlу tо rеасh аnd mаіntаіn а реrѕоnаl gоаl when they lеt ѕоmеоnе еlѕе іn оn their рlаnѕ.
When you’re the оnlу оnе kееріng tаbѕ оn уоur рrоgrеѕѕ, іt саn bе еаѕу tо fаll bасk іntо unhealthy сусlеѕ or even сhеаt оn уоur ѕсоrеѕ.
A dating coach, much lіkе а реrѕоnаl trаіnеr or any other type of coach, provides you with that extra push you need to роwеr through the tough or uncomfortable mоmеntѕ that mау оthеrwіѕе lеаd to quitting bеfоrе уоu rеасh your goal.
A Personal Touch
Working with a dating coach is not lіkе раѕѕіvеlу wаtсhіng a video or attending а ѕеmіnаr. It іnvоlvеѕ dеvеlоріng а wаrm аnd еnrісhіng rеlаtіоnѕhір wіth ѕоmеоnе who is truly іnvеѕtеd іn hеlріng уоu асhіеvе роѕіtіvе rеѕultѕ.
Developing a personal соnnесtіоn with your coach can help motivate you to keep going even when you run into obstacles and challenges. Yоu ѕіmрlу саn’t gеt that tуре of dynamic, іntеrасtіvе еxреrіеnсе anywhere else.
Work with our Vancouver dating experts so you can finally master the art of modern romance.
No matter your experience or situation, we can help you overcome your dating challenges and achieve true fulfillment in your love life.
What Men Look For When Hiring a Vancouver Dating Coach
Below are some of the common problems that men are trying to solve or results they’re trying to achieve in their romantic lives when they take our Vancouver dating coaching programs.
Empowerment
A man who can confidently approach a woman, build an emotional connection, and move that relationship intimately is a man who has a lot more command over his destiny.
We empower men by providing them with the skill sets and tools they need to meet, attract, and connect with women.
More Choices
Our clients often want more choices in their love life.
We’ve found that when men feel like they have quality romantic options, they feel empowered. When they don’t feel like they don’t have quality romantic options, they feel frustrated.
Our dating coaches will help you develop skill sets that will enable you to have an abundance of high quality romantic options.
Whether it’s meeting women in person, optimizing their online dating profiles, or dating through their social circle, we help our clients develop the romantic options that they really want.
Higher Quality Women
Our clients are looking to improve the quality of the women that they date.
This could mean that they want to date women who are more attractive, educated, professionally accomplished, have better values, or some other quality or combination of qualities.
We help men to bring forward their best selves, and work with them to meet the type of women that they would be proud to be with.
Romantic Experience
Some of our clients have had a lot of romantic experiences, while others have had little or none.
Men with little to no romantic experience often don’t know where to start. If they do get into a romantic situation, they’re not sure how to navigate it.
We show these men how to move relationships intimately, so that they can have healthy and fulfilling sex lives.
Masculine Expression
A percentage of our clients have never been taught how to express their masculine energy.
Generally, these men also tend to carry a lot of sexual shame. People often describe them as nice, but in reality they often feel lost, frustrated, or angry inside, because they’re suppressing their desires, feelings, and instincts.
We’ve also noticed that they have a tendency to seek an unhealthy amount of approval and validation from others because they’re scared of standing out or being rejected.
On occasions when they do try to express their masculinity or sexuality, they either go way too far, or not far enough. As a consequence, they usually end up as friends with women that they’re attracted to.
We help these men learn to comfortably express their masculinity and sexuality, and to develop their emotional and social intelligence so they can date successfully.
Emotional Expression and Connection
In contrast, we also have clients who are very good at expressing their masculine energy.
People think of them as being very “alpha.” Often, they have a lot of sexual experience, but they have a hard time opening up, making themselves vulnerable, and emotionally connecting with women.
These men get trapped in their masculinity. Women sleep with them, but usually don’t think of them as long term partners.
We teach these men to open up and allow themselves to be vulnerable so that they can emotionally connect with women, and have fulfilling relationships.
Community
A man is only as strong as the men he has around him.
Men looking for community fall into one of two camps: Either they need new friends or they need different friends.
If a man needs new friends, it’s often because his friends have all moved on to different phases of their life. As an example, maybe his buddies are all settling down and he’s the last one who is still single.
Another man might be looking for different friends because he wants to grow and make changes in his life, but his friends are holding him back.
When a man takes a Craft of Charisma program, he joins a healthy community of supportive men who understand his situation and goals.
Gain Clarity
A lot of men don’t know why their love life isn’t working. They know that they’re not getting the results that they want, but they can’t figure out how to turn things around on their own.
We work with our clients to figure out what’s not working and then we help them to fix it.
Save Time
Our clients want to make the most of their time on earth.
Regardless of what people say, dating doesn’t get easier as you get older.
Generally, it gets a lot harder because there are less available dating options, people have more baggage, and age will make it harder to naturally attract and connect with the women that you’re most attracted to.
Our experience is that the best time to date is almost always now and that the best time to get better at dating was yesterday. We can’t emphasize this strongly enough. Time is cruel, and you can’t get your lost time back.
We help our clients save time so that they can make the most out of their lives.
Become the man that you’ve always wanted to be.
We’ll provide you with all the skill sets and guidance you need to meet, attract, and connect with women, nurture intimacy, and build relationships that last.
How Our Vancouver Dating Classes Are Structured
Our live dating coaching programs in Vancouver have five main components:
1) Lecture / Q&A
Our curriculum is based on the questions our clients have asked us over the years. Some common questions include:
- How do I approach a girl?
- How do I approach a girl with her friends?
- How do I know if she’s interested in me?
- How do I touch her?
- How do I ask for her number?
- When should I text her?
This is just an abbreviated list. The truth is, as you progress and meet more women and have more experiences, more questions will come up. If you have answers to enough of your dating questions and you’re able to solve those problems, you’ll become very happy with the state of your love life.
We want to make certain that what we’re covering in our classes is pertinent to you, your needs, and your goals. That’s why we’re always evolving our curriculum. Bring in your questions to each session and we’ll make sure that you get the answers you need.
2) Role-Play Exercises
Next, we role-play through various social and dating scenarios so that you begin to internalize the concepts we covered in the lecture.
For example, we might have you role-play how you would approach a woman with her friends, or initiate the touch that leads up to a kiss.
Then we give you feedback in a safe environment before we go out for live practice in the Vancouver singles scene.
3) Live Practice
We go out to some of the top bars and clubs in the Vancouver nightlife to get real-world practice and experiences meeting and interacting with women. Our coaches will be there to watch you, answer your questions, and provide real-time guidance.
4) Feedback
Craft of Charisma coaches are there to guide you through this process. We answer your questions, share observations in a constructive way, and show you what you’re doing right and wrong.
5) Reflective Practice
After every infield session, we ask our clients to reflect back on what happened.
During this process, we want them to identify where they’re getting stuck and what new questions are coming up. Then we use these questions to develop the curriculum for our next session.
As you can see, dating coaching is really about self-development. And self-development is an interactive and iterative process.
Stop missing out on all the opportunities the Vancouver singles scene has to offer.
Experience true social freedom and be able to confidently approach women in any environment from bars and clubs to regular everyday situations.
Upcoming Dating Bootcamps and Programs in Vancouver
Craft of Charisma offers live dating coaching programs including our signature 8-week Dating Mastery Program and 3-Day Dating Bootcamps. We also offer private one-on-one 3-Day Bootcamps and coaching that can be customized to your specific needs and goals.
* Note: Due to the ongoing pandemic, program dates are subject to change. Please contact us with any questions or concerns. *
3-Day Dating Bootcamp
Our How to Meet and Connect with Women Bootcamp is a three-day weekend intensive program designed to help you learn how to approach women, start conversations, and set up dates. Includes lecture, role-play, infield practice, and real time feedback.
8-Week Dating Mastery Program
Our 8-week Dating Mastery Program is the world’s premier dating coaching program for men. It’s an intensive, life-changing experience that will give you the time you need to actually learn, experiment with, and ask questions about what we’ll be teaching you.
1-on-1 Dating Bootcamp
Our 1-on-1 Dating Bootcamp is a three-day customized program designed to help you make significant progress towards your dating and relationship goals. We’ll cover everything from mindset, social skills, meeting and connecting with women, dating, seduction, relationships, and more.
Private 1-on-1 Dating Coaching
Our private 1-on-1 dating coaching pairs you with one of the world’s top dating coaches. You’ll get personalized mentorship to help you reach your dating goals as quickly as possible. We’ll cover all aspects of social skills, dating, relationships, love and commitment, and beyond.
Ready to put your dating and relationship struggles behind you?
Learn how Craft of Charisma’s experienced Vancouver dating coaches can help you transform your romantic life and meet your dream girl.
Testimonials and Success Stories
Scroll through the testimonials to hear our former clients share their social, dating and relationship success stories, as well as their experiences from working with Craft of Charisma and founder, CEO, and head coach Chris Luna.
* Note: Some names and photos of clients have been hidden to protect privacy. *
Craft of Charisma gets my highest recommendation. I loved how each class in the 8 week course built upon the prior classes. By the end of the program, I felt confident enough to approach any woman and have a man-to-woman conversation with her in a smooth, effortless way. The program’s framework breaks down the process in a very simple and digestible way. If you practice the concepts, I promise they work! Thanks to the Craft of Charisma program, I am seeing a girl who I previously thought was way out of my league. I’m now confident that the skills I learned in the program will lead to many other fun experiences with women, and eventually to an incredible future girlfriend. Thanks guys. Keep up the great work!
G. B.
Great class & actionable advise. I did not know anything about the presenter before the class. But after class I did some research to look up the background and reviews about Chris Luna. I am glad I got an opportunity to spend 3 hours with a very well renowned coach in the Dating world.
The class was to the point and addressed all the questions very carefully and thoughtfully. Chris is on mission and he wants genuinely help those who are sincere about changing this aspect of the life. Let’s see if our paths cross again. I will recommend this class highly with a lot of real genuine advise.
P. G.
I started out at one of Chris’s lectures and eventually took his mastery class. I would highly recommend it. It changed dating for me completely and even helped in other areas of my life. Chris lays all the info out for you in his sessions and then gives you plenty of time to work on the info in the bars and clubs. What made me choose to take the class was the fact that Chris wasn’t “gamey” or gimicky. He’s a genuinely nice guy who just knows how to date girls. He’s not going to spoon feed the material to you but if you are motivated he will give you all the info you need, answer all your questions and guide you past any sticking points you have.
Michael H.
If you’re looking for someone to help your dating life or help you look for a life partner, you want someone who knows the latest findings in the field, is experienced, and is willing to help you in his best ability, and Chris is that person. I recommend to listen to the wealth of podcast on craftofcharisma.com and sign up for one of his weekly intro sessions to experience his method in person. The best is to join his master program, can be one of the best investments on yourself.
Kaiwen L.
I participated the Mastery program. I received great experience. Chris was super helpful and was giving great advises. The group of guys who were participating with me was very cool. At the beginning it looks like it was pretty serious then it was so much fun. Everybody were helping each other + great since of humor of Chris and the guys made it so much fun and easier.
It was end to end course and we learnt everything. The main advantage for me that Chris thought us how to enjoy the process of going out and have fun with guys or by yourself. I did everything like we practiced, I asked questions and worked on myself + cool guys around, as the result I achieved all the goals I wanted, met awesome people with the same goals, got great experience and had lots of fun!
I highly recommend this class to all the guys who wants to change their life, and improve their personal life experience!
Alexey B.
I went to Chris’s Abolish Anxiety class. They say “don’t buy commodities, but buy experiences.” This is an experience that I do not regret. I like that you go out with a group of like-minded men to improve your social skills. It’s nice to know that I am not out there alone and if I need to fall back on some people, the guys that I went out with will support me to go back out there to do it again.
It was end to end course and we learnt everything. The main advantage for me that Chris thought us how to enjoy the process of going out and have fun with guys or by yourself. I did everything like we practiced, I asked questions and worked on myself + cool guys around, as the result I achieved all the goals I wanted, met awesome people with the same goals, got great experience and had lots of fun!
I highly recommend this class to all the guys who wants to change their life, and improve their personal life experience!
Dexter Y.
I’ve had the distinct pleasure of working with and learning from Chris Luna, who’s an all-around amazing guy and a master of social interaction. In his classes, Chris will break down the dynamics of social interaction for you in a way that’s fun and easy to understand. This is important, particularly if you (like me) are someone who is more technically-minded. You’ll go through drills in a controlled setting and then test your new skills live in NYC bars/clubs at night. Make no mistake — it is not easy. Chris will push you to approach individuals and groups, and you’ll experience the full range of responses. You’ll have failures, but you’ll also have successes — and that alone makes it all worthwhile. You’ll be far outside your comfort zone, but if you can push through it, you’ll emerge stronger on the other side.
Beyond the skills that you learn, you’ll also have fun. You’ll meet other great students in the class, and you’ll learn, fail, and succeed together. Chris is also just a fantastic guy to know. The class is pricey, to be sure, but think of it as an investment in your future, because the skills that you learn will impact multiple aspects of your life.
One final note – what you get out of the class also depends on the effort you put into. Chris can only push you so far. Make the most of it!
Vincent H.
When I first heard about Craft of Charisma and the dating mastery program, I thought that if I signed up, I would be the worst case that they had ever seen – that I would walk out ten weeks later with them scratching their heads as to what went wrong. Nothing could have been further from the truth. Upon joining the course, I was taught and practiced a set of invaluable, carefully-tested skills in a very professional way by a group of people who really did care about seeing me succeed. In the space of ten weeks, I went from being completely unable to do anything in a social setting to being ready and eager to approach and converse with anyone at any time or place. As a person whose past is filled with absolutely horrific stories of social disasters, I say this to you with sincerity: the mastery program will not only teach you important facts about dating but also platonic and professional relationships, dress and grooming, building a social circle, self-confidence, and above all, finding out who you are.
I’ve done more with myself socially in two months than I have in my entire life.
Richard C.
Working with Chris Luna and Craft of Charisma was simply amazing. If you want to be comfortable with the person you are, which happens to be the only way to be comfortable meeting and dating women, then working with Chris is a great way to start. You’ll get on a path of proper social understanding and demeanor, and also realistic goal setting in general. His organization is focused on the dating arena, but the fact is his ideas can be applied to all areas of life. Chris is a great man who is dedicated to his organization and clients. I’d like to take this opportunity to thank him for his help.
Daniel M.
I attended Chris’s class on physical escalation and it really was a huge help. He broke the whole process down step by step, laid out each step clearly, and had each of us walk through a part of the process for practice.
I will say that it also help that some of his regular students came to the class so we were able to see first hand the type of changes that Chris helps you strive for.
If you are on the fence about hiring a dating coach, come to one of Chris’s classes. It’s a great way to dip your toe in the water without jumping all the way in.
Joshua S.
I came across this program through Meetup.com. At first, I was nervous in attending one of his sessions, but I knew I needed help in my dating experience, as sometimes I do not feel it being as important as it should be.
Chris, a very down to earth person, very relaxed and friendly came into the room and he greeted each one of us and asked us what we want out of this two hour session. He sincerely tried his best to answer all of our issues and I came out of this meetup very happy and inspired. I’m a pretty social guy but I get into this loop where I feel like being alone. Chris gave me very simple pointers on snapping out of it. More importantly, he made me realize why I went into this “loop.”
I intend on attending many more of these sessions. Definitely recommend this to everyone.
Sharad S.
I just completed the dating mastery class and must say it was a great investment. The stuff I learned during the course was invaluable. Chris’s material and methods are some of the best and most practical out there. I can say Chris is the real deal. He is genuine and truly cares about your success. He will be there every step of the way as you navigate this area of life. What is great about this program is access to a community of like minded people who are people I now consider friends. Highly recommend this program.
J. N.
I would highly recommend Chris and Craft of Charisma. I’ve tried out several different programs and coaches, and have always been left disappointed and slighted. With Chris not only is the information and knowledge great, he genuinely cares which makes the experience much more authentic, enjoyable and relatable.
The skills I’ve learned in the last 10 weeks have made me a better man. I would highly recommend to everyone. This course isn’t cheap, but will definitely save you lots of money, time and agony over time!
Big fan of investing in yourself. You get what you put in!
Matthew V.
My dating skills have improved dramatically! Before the Dating Mastery Program, I never thought I would have the ability to see a woman I desired, and then have the ability to approach her and start a conversation. Now I can do it anytime and in any situation. Which I will warn you, leads to a lot of dates : ) Having this new ability makes me feel more confident. Where I used to be tense, I’m now relaxed and at ease with myself. That alone has drastically improved the quality of my life. There is a bonus here, which most people probably haven’t considered. These skill-sets can be used for a lot more than meeting, dating, and starting relationships with women. They apply to all human interactions. This is really just social skills. I’ve taken what I’ve learned, and I’m now using it to network and start a business. The Dating Mastery Program is the best investment I’ve ever made. Every day it continues to pay for itself. Whatever it takes, sell your car, take out a loan, get a second job. Just find a way to do it! It will change your life; it has definitely changed mine.
Anonymous
Chris has helped me become the social person I have always wanted to be. The course teaches you skills way beyond dating skills. I have learned to be more confident in all aspects of my life. Just recently I got 1 out of 400 positions in one of the nation’s top companies, to which over 70,000 people applied for. I have been dating an amazing girl that has all the qualities I’ve always looked for. The mastery program has truly changed my life.
Anonymous
This is a life-changing program. Not only does it significantly improve your social skills with the ladies, it also applies the same principles to your family, business and personal life. Chris is one of the most knowledgeable professionals on the subject of social skills. He teaches the theory, he practices role-play in class and takes you out to the field for real application of the skills just learned. To add to that, he is also a great human being and cares about his students. It is one of the most challenging programs you will take and the payout is priceless. The classes also teach teamwork, we all help each other get better and help each other in the field. It will change your life, it changed mine.
Anonymous
Before taking the mastery class, my beliefs were limited. I never thought it would ever be possible to make out with a girl in a club and/or even take her home the same night. However, during the ten weeks, all my beliefs changed because it actually happened to me. Chris’s teaching and guidance is like no other, he really cares about his students. He’ll observe you and give you the right feedback that will get you results. The program has also allowed me to build better relationships at work as well as expand my social circle. The mastery program is an investment that will change your life forever and that is priceless.
Anonymous
I came to see Chris about a year and a half ago. At the time, my social skills left a lot to be desired. Everything I had been doing up until that point simply wasn’t working, so I put my faith in him and his system. Leaving it to the experts was the best thing I ever did. In a short period of time I made immeasurable gains! Anxieties started to fall away and many myths were also debunked. Chris always put me in situations where I could succeed. I learned leadership skills that have helped me both socially and professionally. People closest to me have definitely noticed the difference. Recently, I went to a bar with a few people from work, and a couple of female colleagues commented on how smooth I was with a young lady waiting in line to use the bathroom. I’ve never been called smooth in my life, but that’s a testament of the work I had done with Chris. I have become the person I always wanted to be. My true personality is finally shining through and I’m now in a position to choose the people I want to have in my life.
Art
I took part in an intro class that was offered as part of a seminar, so I only went out with Chris for one night, and not even very long, but I was able to achieve amazing results. Chris gave me specific and applicable advice on my approaches with women to be more engaging and interesting, and also provided progressive improvements I could make, rather than overwhelming me with a whole set of behaviors. Each approach was better than the last, and within an hour I was comfortably flirting and moving from group to group. I overcame one of my biggest hurdles — breaking the border of interesting conversation to actually having a girl attracted to me. Having worked briefly with some other programs, I can say this one definitely provides the most personal, in-depth, and targeted training. I was treated with respect while still being pushed to break out of my comfort zone, and I am signing up for the classes ASAP. Highly recommended if you’re looking to improve your dating or other aspects of your social life.
Anonymous
Awesome self-development course, I’m glad I was able to man up and take it. There’s no other program like this in the city. For those who are serious about getting their social life handled, the ten-week course will produce lasting positive change in your interactions. The coaches place an emphasis on conveying the good parts of your personality, and help you get rid of the stuff holding you back. Practice is structured so that bad habits are dropped, and effective good habits are created (while meeting awesome women in the process!). Coaches provide solutions for the problems you know you have in your social interactions, and more importantly, point out the problems you DON’T KNOW YOU HAVE. Then they fix those too! Women always say they want guys to “be themselves.” Well, the only way to really “be yourself” around women is to realize how awesome you are, and develop the ability to convey your awesomeness. That’s exactly what this course teaches!
Anonymous
I recently went through a three-month program with Chris and the staff of Craft of Charisma. The only way to describe the experience would be “life-changing.” I came to Craft of Charisma as a shy person looking to improve both my social skills and self-esteem. I had difficulty interacting with others in even the simplest situations. Everyone else seemed to be out enjoying life and I felt like I was living in a prison. Through the coaches’ instruction, patience and feedback, I was able to change all my old patterns of social anxiety as well as my limiting beliefs. Now everything has changed: the way I breathe, walk, talk, stand, think, and most importantly the way I feel about life!!!!! Thank you Craft of Charisma for teaching me the strategies for successful social interaction, improving my self-esteem, and showing me that the prison I thought I was living in never really existed.
T. C.
I read somewhere that something like 80% of success in life is dependent on social skills. I went into the three-month program thinking that if I could improve 10% it would be well worth it over the course of a lifetime. I’d say I’m 100% more confident approaching girls, strangers, store clerks, whomever! My friends say they can see a positive change. The true measure of how effective it is… is that I don’t think about it when I go out now. I remember one time, a long time ago, I went to a bar because this girl called me to go come meet her and a friend of mine. She was a girl I really liked. And I got to the bar and had so much anxiety about just going in I couldn’t do it. I drove home and left. Now a buddy calls me to go wherever and I don’t hesitate. It’s easy. And I always have fun, I always meet someone. Now I feel like I have this little toolbox in the back of my head. I think, “Man, I’d really like to get her number,” and now I know exactly how to go about it. Or “Man, I’d really like to physically escalate this” — done. I could go on and on. If you have a certain amount of social anxiety, or problems meeting new people I really really recommend this. Definitely check it out. It’s also, HANDS DOWN the best value for anything like this out there.
Anonymous
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