#AskCofCArticleDating AdviceDating Questions

How to Move a Girl

-by Rob Virges Student: “I don’t know what happened. I managed to have a really good, long, and intimate interaction with this really cute girl I approached at the bar after I got past my anxiety, hit it off with her, and grabbed her phone number after talking to her …

READ MORE →
#AskCofCArticleDating AdviceDating Questions

How to Approach a Girl: The 4 Type of Openers You Can Use to Make Every Conversation Stick

-by Rob Virges “Hey Rob, how do I break the ice with a girl? Holding conversations whether it’s small talk or some really deep stuff is pretty easy but my real hurdle is overcoming the initial awkwardness of the introduction.” With every workshop and every Dating Mastery Class cycle I’ve …

READ MORE →
#AskCofCArticleDating AdviceDating Questions

How to Approach a Girl: 7 Signals She Wants You to Talk to Her

“Hey Rob, what do you need to look out for when you’re about to approach a girl in a bar, club, or any nightlife setting for that matter?” I was out the other night recently with a few of my good friends from college slamming back a few beers, enjoying …

READ MORE →
#AskCofCArticleDating AdviceDating Questions

How to Get a Girlfriend: 10 Simple Steps to Make Her Want You

“You get into the game to get out of it.”-Random Disillusioned Lothario I remember a few years ago when I was first learning the fundamentals of the dating game and starting to see some initial results after a year of awkward firsts. Awkward first approaches, awkward small talk, awkward first …

READ MORE →
#AskCofCArticleDating AdviceFitnessLifestylePsychology

The Fallacy of All-or-Nothing Thinking (Motivation Monday Part IV)

“Perfection is the enemy of the good”-Voltaire For the last two months I’ve been experimenting with something new to get back into shape and condition. The difference this time is that this wasn’t some “Oh shit, summer’s almost here, I gotta cut down and get my six pack ready for …

READ MORE →
#AskCofCArticleDating AdviceDating Questions

5 Simple First Date Ideas

-by Rob Virges Student: “Hey Rob, I just managed to get a date with a girl I had just met at Whole Foods the other day? I’m excited but I’m also incredibly nervous to what we should do on our first date together.” Rob: “For the love of God, please …

READ MORE →
#AskCofCArticleDating Advice

5 Signals She Wants You To Make a Move

-by Rob Virges In yesterday’s post, I wrote about developing your internal self-confidence with a few mindsets and re-affirmations. If you haven’t had a chance to take a look at it, you can take a look at it right here: How does the ugly guy get the beautiful woman? Part …

READ MORE →
#AskCofCArticleDating AdvicePsychology

How does the ugly guy get the beautiful woman? Part I (A guide on developing your inner Casanova)

“Never pick a fight with an ugly person, they’ve got nothing to lose.”-Robin Williams   The other day I wrote a post about going for girls that you deem out of your league. If you haven’t had a chance to take a look at it here’s the link as it’ll …

READ MORE →
#AskCofCArticleDating AdvicePsychology

How to Move On (Part II)

-by Rob Virges A few weeks ago I wrote an article about moving on and letting go of a girl you’ve either just recently broken up with, have been pursuing but doesn’t feel the same way about you, or has in some form become an unfulfilled flame due to circumstances …

READ MORE →
#AskCofCArticleDating AdviceDating Questions

How to Date Girls Out of Your League

-by Rob Virges Student: “Hey Rob, I just don’t think I can approach that girl over there.” Rob: “Why not?” Student: “Well…I’m just too (insert excuse here)…..” Every single class I’ve ever coached, with every single client in a unique situation, at one point or another I’ve always have gotten …

READ MORE →
#AskCofCArticleDating AdviceLifestylePsychology

Why Quitting is a Vital Part of Your Success (Motivation Monday Part III)

-by Rob Virges I just got off the phone with one of my best friends from college, besides catching up, we always get into deep intellectual and philosophical debates about life, our respective career choices, current challenges, long-term visions, navigating the ups and downs of dating lives like any other …

READ MORE →