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Navigating NYC’s Nightlife: A List of NYC’s Best Venues to Mingle if You’re Single

This post is going to be a little different and if there’s three valuable points I want you to take away from this post. Have Fun, the nightlife is supposed to be an adventure. Whether you’re newly single, new to the scene, or you just want to sow your wild …

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How to Deal with Rejection: A Guide for Thriving in the Modern Dating Game

-by Rob Virges If there’s one thing that life and the dating game have in common is it’s harsh way of reminding you of your vulnerabilities and humanity. Every mastery class cycle and workshop I’ve coached in the last few years always has some question or resistance that comes in …

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How to Cure Nice Guy Syndrome: 5 Tips on Overcoming Nice Guy Syndrome Without Having to Become an Asshole

-by Rob Virges “I just don’t get it Rob, I don’t know what went wrong with our relationship. I loved her, I literally did everything for her, always went out of my way to make her happy, bought her whatever she wanted, emotionally supported her whenever she needed it, and …

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How to Not Be Creepy: 8 Quick Fixes & Tips On Becoming a Smooth Operator

“Hey Rob, I was just recently told by a girl who was a friend of mine that her friend thought I was strange and came off creepy, I don’t what I did to put her off, what should I do?” For all the men I have coached in the last …

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How to Approach a Girl: The 4 Type of Openers You Can Use to Make Every Conversation Stick

-by Rob Virges “Hey Rob, how do I break the ice with a girl? Holding conversations whether it’s small talk or some really deep stuff is pretty easy but my real hurdle is overcoming the initial awkwardness of the introduction.” With every workshop and every Dating Mastery Class cycle I’ve …

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How to Approach a Girl: 7 Signals She Wants You to Talk to Her

“Hey Rob, what do you need to look out for when you’re about to approach a girl in a bar, club, or any nightlife setting for that matter?” I was out the other night recently with a few of my good friends from college slamming back a few beers, enjoying …

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How to Get a Girlfriend: 10 Simple Steps to Make Her Want You

“You get into the game to get out of it.”-Random Disillusioned Lothario I remember a few years ago when I was first learning the fundamentals of the dating game and starting to see some initial results after a year of awkward firsts. Awkward first approaches, awkward small talk, awkward first …

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The Fallacy of All-or-Nothing Thinking (Motivation Monday Part IV)

“Perfection is the enemy of the good”-Voltaire For the last two months I’ve been experimenting with something new to get back into shape and condition. The difference this time is that this wasn’t some “Oh shit, summer’s almost here, I gotta cut down and get my six pack ready for …

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5 Simple First Date Ideas

-by Rob Virges Student: “Hey Rob, I just managed to get a date with a girl I had just met at Whole Foods the other day? I’m excited but I’m also incredibly nervous to what we should do on our first date together.” Rob: “For the love of God, please …

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5 Signals She Wants You To Make a Move

-by Rob Virges In yesterday’s post, I wrote about developing your internal self-confidence with a few mindsets and re-affirmations. If you haven’t had a chance to take a look at it, you can take a look at it right here: How does the ugly guy get the beautiful woman? Part …

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